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Skettios
I know you want her, but it's not consistent.
You are at one level, she is at another.
Don't let her use you for the "warm & fuzzies".
Admit to yourself, you want a commitment (not marriage...but a full relationship)
Admit to yourself, you are jealous (maybe not so much of men, but of her time & attention)
Admit to yourself, that she is not into you, like you are into her.
Admit to yourself, her actions do NOT match her words.
You are not being the "bad guy" here,
if anything you are being too much of a "nice guy"
set your limits...make her make a firm decision.
she cannot have her cake and eat it too.
She is using the words you hear to make HERSELF feel comfortable about the situation,
not for your sake.
Otherwise,
Let is go, do what you need & move on.
Remember, you are responsible for the time & effort you put into this.
And you are responsible for setting your limits. (protect yourself)
Being a gentleman, does NOT mean being a patsy.
She needs to make a firm decision, otherwise you are left with really nothing.
It's time to put her cards on the table.
No more wishy-washyness.
Yes, there is a chance you might lose...by forcing the issue.
But then again...you then know where firmly where you stand.
and you can move forward either way.
This will hurt, but it will be healthier.
Don't go backwards, don't stay stagnant.
Move forward.
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