i think that we've identified that as her misunderstanding between the whole thing... she still feels guilty for having done to me what she did in the beginning disassociating the past and the present may be the biggest hurdle..
i think her guilt about the past in general really hinders our sex life in general...
also, she thought that i wanted her to do it with a man so i could do it with another woman, something i'd never do unless she really wanted to...
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