If you're not willing to spend time with these "old" friends, then you should probably just end the friendships. It's just old baggage now. Otherwise live up to your not always enjoyable duty as a friend and treat them like people you care about. Don't let the significance of the event fool you into thinking you have a carte blanche and that you'll be able to patch things up later. Your friends wont forgive you just because it was your wedding.
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