I have met some devastatingly beautiful women that are, simply put, dull as a post. Sure, they make my libido do the mambo BUT that's it. I know from experience that as soon as we have done the deed, there is nothing more there but a need to get away to avoid the awkward pauses in the (lack) of conversation.
The opposite, however, is also true. I have met some extremely intelligent, highly conversant women who are just not what I think is attractive. I can sit and chat forever. Be best friends. But not a lover. It just isn't there. The spark.
For me... the best is a mix of the two. Good looks (and by this I do not mean she needs to be a model, just someone that I find attractive) as well good brains. Thankfully my wife is both of these in one convenient package.
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"My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars."
- Old Man Luedecke
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