Originally Posted by Mephex

I'm in the same situation as the guy referred to by the OP. My last ex, we'd go for hours, she was medicated and couldn't get there, so I could bang away until I completely exploded and collapsed. As the common thread, in this thread is going. It's all about anxiety.

I've met the most awesome woman in the world, just amazing. We get to fucking and she's such a g'damn clawing, leg-wrapping, eyes-blazing animal I can't last more then 15 minutes tops. It'll get better, but I'll certainly admit it has me questioning myself.

I think, as others do, that it is you. You have something other grrls don't. Not a bad thing, but certainly something that will take time and/or communication to get past.