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First, breathe.
Now...think about what you can control in your life. How would you go about it?
Going to school with a newborn probably would not be a good idea. And it costs a bundle.
Set some goals, maybe go to work in three months-start part time and when the husband can be there at home. Talk to him. Is he an ass for real or does he become a control freak because you two don't talk about anything so he thinks he has to take command? He helped make the kid to come, he should be involved in 50% of its life.
$500 a week ain't much, but it's doable if there's no rent to pay. Discuss where you want to be in a year with the spouse. Make a plan, stick to it.
Don't suffer silently. Giving birth, having a baby and all that goes with it is overwhelming enough. Ask for help assertively.
Breathe....
good luck.
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