there is allot of discussion that needs to happen before you can start playing sexually as a couple. really talk things out before you go down this path. Talk about boundaries, feelings, and speak honestly about how you and he would feel afterwards....
Also... make sure this is something you do for Yourself... not because it's a fantasy of your partner's.
I have played with my husband on several occasions in a very controlled environment (aka, we had disscussions with the gentlemen beforehand), it takes allot of discussion and open communication...
Now we have a girlfriend that we share and are committed to that, so we no longer play on the scene with men, but I find it's much easier with another woman than it is with a man... then again, I'm bi, so that makes a difference.
It takes a strong communication to get past any issues that may arise. And trust me... it's always more than just sex... even if you are not emotionally involved with the individual you are playing with... there are still emotions you will have to deal with from both yourself and your husband.
If it is something you are serious about considering... go ahead and have those really honest communications about it with your husband...and then don't open the door to the possibility until you are both ready.
But, my advice to you would be... if you have ANY doubts after discussing it at length a number of times... don't do it.
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