Too much use (on high power) can lead to numbing. I'd just give it to your wife and let her play with it so she can see how she likes it (contrary to popular believe, it DOES take a special touch to max out a vibrator's potential).
But with that toy, she can mount it while you do her from behind, she can use it for clitoral massage while blowing you, etc. etc. You can use it on your ass.
Not sure about lube as the Magic Wand seems like it would be a bitch to clean. Lube is also not necessary with a vibrator.
My favorite toy has actually been a Homedics double-headed back massager (looks like ET and weighs 5 lbs or something!) and I'd use it with a cloth barrier (e.g. panties). It was grrrrrrrrreat!
It's really empowering to realize how hard you can make yourself cum.
Anyway, back to my original advice.
DO let her play with it by herself - she'll figure out how to work it.
DON'T ask to watch or help. Let her introduce it into your sex life when she's ready.
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Uh huh her.
Last edited by xxxafterglow; 10-14-2007 at 05:23 AM..
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