Push-Pull

Well, based on a recommendation I saw in this forum, I just ordered my wife a Hitachi Magic Wand for her birthday. And yes, I got the attachments!

Besides being able to give her a good massage, (which I admit I'm not very apt to do [hangs head]) I was hoping that this might also throw some spark into our bed and jump start her libido a bit.

Anyways, I'm interested in knowing if anyone has any do's and don't for me regarding this item. While I will be using it mostly for body massages (probably non sexual at times...) I fully intend on using it for more nefarious purposes as soon as I can. (imagine that) Suggestions on things like lube/oils/lotions, warning signs, things I just shouldn't do, things I definitely have to try, and the like would be appreciated.

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Congrats, it's an amazing sex toy. Haven't used it for non-sexual massage though. I recommend getting attachements, I got mine through Holistic Wisdom. Yeah, hokey name, but they got ALL the goods at the best price.

Ummm, be careful of the higher speed. Can get numb real fast, which is not what is generally desired, eh?

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Too much use (on high power) can lead to numbing. I'd just give it to your wife and let her play with it so she can see how she likes it (contrary to popular believe, it DOES take a special touch to max out a vibrator's potential).

But with that toy, she can mount it while you do her from behind, she can use it for clitoral massage while blowing you, etc. etc. You can use it on your ass.

Not sure about lube as the Magic Wand seems like it would be a bitch to clean. Lube is also not necessary with a vibrator.

My favorite toy has actually been a Homedics double-headed back massager (looks like ET and weighs 5 lbs or something!) and I'd use it with a cloth barrier (e.g. panties). It was grrrrrrrrreat!

It's really empowering to realize how hard you can make yourself cum.

Anyway, back to my original advice.
DO let her play with it by herself - she'll figure out how to work it.
DON'T ask to watch or help. Let her introduce it into your sex life when she's ready.

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