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did he look down and then back up a bit later or did he look away completely as in turning his head - If he looked down then back up I don't know that you should give up hope yet. Quite often when I'm flirting I will meet the guys eyes then flick my eyes down and back up to his eyes or lips, I find I start to blush horribly if I meet a guys eyes for too long while thinking naughty thoughts about him.
As for changing if you want to change do so! Make a list of things you would like to change about yourself or who you want to be and then formulate plans to make that change. You want to loose weight? Ok join a gym change your diet. You want to meet people? Join some clubs, do some activities. Stuff like that.
I used to be a real observer myself happy to sit back and watch the social interaction of my peers, I still do actually. But living that way before you know it you've missed a whole heap of opportunities, if you never take the risk you'll never know if it would have suceeded.
The only difference between genius and insanity is sucess.
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"I want to be remembered as the girl who always smiles even when her heart is broken... and the one that could brighten up your day even if she couldnt brighten her own"
"Her emotions were clear waters. You could see the scarring and pockmarks at the bottom of the pool, but it was just a part of her landscape – the consequences of others’ actions in which she claimed no part."
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