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Wanting to do it and going for it are two different things.
I don't like it when someone says you 'should' or 'shouldn't'. Obviously you are unsure about your husband self-assuredness-after 15 years, though, you should know where it stands.
You could try something of a 'test'-got any sexy photos? Or maybe one or two of the two of you? Cut and paste another man in one. Try to make it look 'real', frame it, put it on his dresser. Reason I suggest this is this: I've done just that, one with a woman pasted in, another with a man. The one with the woman was 'hot', the man, not such a good reaction. Seems the spouse would love to have another woman with me and, while his initial reaction to another man was "that's hot", it changed to "oh, shit".
And, most importantly, discuss it frankly. Why does he want this?
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