Well, based on a recommendation I saw in this forum, I just ordered my wife a Hitachi Magic Wand for her birthday. And yes, I got the attachments!
Besides being able to give her a good massage, (which I admit I'm not very apt to do [hangs head]) I was hoping that this might also throw some spark into our bed and jump start her libido a bit.
Anyways, I'm interested in knowing if anyone has any do's and don't for me regarding this item. While I will be using it mostly for body massages (probably non sexual at times...) I fully intend on using it for more nefarious purposes as soon as I can. (imagine that) Suggestions on things like lube/oils/lotions, warning signs, things I just shouldn't do, things I definitely have to try, and the like would be appreciated.