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I think you already have plenty of good advise, but I'll throw in a comment.
You have stumbled upon one of the biggest inherent differences between men and women when it comes to relationships. Even though both of you came out in the beginning agreeing that this would not be a 'serious relationship,' it became one. In the times that you were having sex, you were just having sex, somewhere along the line she became emotionally involved and assumed that you were too.
The two of you were in a relationship, a physical relationship, but a relationship nonetheless. (stereotyping ahead) Men have the ability to exclude emotion from the physical, women usually do not. Her thought process was something along the lines of "As long as we keep having sex, we'll end up in a loving committed relationship." She dove right into those lines of thinking while you were going along the original agreement of "Hey, I'm getting laid without strings attached!"
The actual way this surfaced may have been through texting, but it would have happened sometime someway eventually because you two aren't on the same page. She's looking for the next step, you aren't, and like others have said, she expected you to read her mind. If she's stuck on that then its time to walk away, because if you truly aren't ready, you aren't ready. Forcing a relationship from the get go never works out.
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If you have any poo... fling it NOW!
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