only change if you want to. if you are trying to be someone you are not, it will show and that is a turn off. if you are you, it will show and that will be attractive. it might not be attractive to the guy YOU WANT to attract, but then, if you have to be someone else, will you be that happy?
you are 19. i guarantee your tastes will change in the next few years. just enjoy yourself and have fun. and you are in college. worry about that. the relationships will come and go no matter what you do.
and to be crass, if it's just sex you want (some night, that might be all you want) you are a female. all you have to do is walk into a place and you will have your pick of men. might not be good ones, but there it is...
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onward to mayhem!
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