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Originally Posted by squeeeb
yet, what is the first thing a girl does when she walks into anywhere? scope you head to toe (yes, guys do it too, i know). she wants a guy who is tall, buffed, thick mane of fabio hair, perfect skin, etc etc. it doesn't matter if the guy is smart, sensitive, charismatic, all the things any girl says she looks for in a man. if he doesn't look the part, she usually will not give him the time of day to find out what he's made of.
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I don't know what kind of girls you've been hanging around with... but you need to find a new set. I don't remember the last time I "scoped a guy head to toe," perhaps it was in high school (10 years ago). I certainly did not do it with my husband, or any of the guys I dated in my 20s.
Other than being tall, ktspktsp is none of the above that you mention in that list... in fact, if he was, I wouldn't have given him the time of day. I never liked cookie-cutter men who were clearly tailoring themselves to get "game" or at the very least, attention from women. The fact that my husband was "smart, sensitive, charismatic," as you say, and had a HELL of a sense of humor, and didn't give a shit about game, is what got my attention. (Not to mention his eyes... mmm, how I love those eyes.)
The guy who ended up being the best man in our wedding was also "competing" with my husband at the time, to get my attention, and while he's been known before and since then to have all kinds of game... it was completely a waste of time to try that on me. He has no problem finding ways to get laid these days, but finding a woman to be in a relationship with... yeah, none of them ever work out, though from what he says, they're all hot. Doesn't keep him from being lonely, though.