I have been with what many would consider 'ugly' men, but they were so beautiful...one, I knew the minute I met him, I would be with him. We were together 15 months and I still think about him after 3 decades.
Another, friends actually said 'ew!!', but we had a great relationship while it lasted and him too, I still miss.
While there are definite physical 'turn-offs'(overweight being #1 for me), it's ultimately the personality/interaction that draws me in. Ironically, I don't consider myself the 'beauty' the men in my life have proclaimed me to be and still have difficulty taking their compliments.
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