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spectre · 10-09-2007, 05:38 PM

Based on what I've seen with people, both are important to everyone, but everyone has a different balance. No attraction makes it harder to let people see the personality and will have a negative effect on the amount of sex, which will lead to problems. No personality will make it harder to stay long term. That's not to say that one has an effect on the other, but people are more tolerable to lack of one aspect when the other is more important to them.

Oops, didn't see "confidence" when I made the post, but it still stands. Now confidence, that will always help. Confidence, note: not arrogance, will always be a plus. People, in general, tend to follow charismatic people, and the bulk of that charisma comes from confidence. That is always the key.

10-09-2007, 05:38 PM	#2 (permalink)
spectre Junkie	Based on what I've seen with people, both are important to everyone, but everyone has a different balance. No attraction makes it harder to let people see the personality and will have a negative effect on the amount of sex, which will lead to problems. No personality will make it harder to stay long term. That's not to say that one has an effect on the other, but people are more tolerable to lack of one aspect when the other is more important to them. Oops, didn't see "confidence" when I made the post, but it still stands. Now confidence, that will always help. Confidence, note: not arrogance, will always be a plus. People, in general, tend to follow charismatic people, and the bulk of that charisma comes from confidence. That is always the key. __________________ "Fuck these chains No goddamn slave I will be different" ~ Machine Head Last edited by spectre; 10-09-2007 at 05:40 PM..