squeeeb

been thinking about this for decades...

so many people say "it's not how you look, it's your personality, your brains, your confidence"

yet, what is the first thing a girl does when she walks into anywhere? scope you head to toe (yes, guys do it too, i know). she wants a guy who is tall, buffed, thick mane of fabio hair, perfect skin, etc etc. it doesn't matter if the guy is smart, sensitive, charismatic, all the things any girl says she looks for in a man. if he doesn't look the part, she usually will not give him the time of day to find out what he's made of.

i hear and see these lists of things a various girls want in a guy. i usually have more than one of those attributes. but because i look the way i look (i'm not hideously deformed, i'm just not "sculpted model") it don't matter, i'm not what they are looking for. i am not "attractive."

or so it seems to me. care to disagree?

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