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Originally Posted by dd3953
yeah. letting her go is not the problem, was not holding on too tight in the first place. . .
but am i really the only person who sometimes feels like they will never find love?
i mean, i know there are ways to find it. but i don't think "online" is one of them. . .
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You're not the only person who feels this way. To reiterate what others have been saying though, it's not something that will just magically fall into your lap. Almost always, deep love comes from a solid relationship with yourself first, then a relationship with someone else.
It may sound harsh but stop wallowing in your perceived lovelessness. I only say this b/c I have been known to do that.
It really helped me to read Rainer Maria Rilke's "Letters to a Young Poet" - there's a section in there that deals specifically with love but pay especially good attention to the parts about cultivating your own solitude.
Throw yourself into your hobbies and interests and have some fun! Get out and meet people that share your interests. Love will come in its own time.