I'm sorry but
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"well, I guess it's no big deal, we're not dating, but uh, it's sending me the wrong message to tell me that you're telling other people that we're getting back together and then for you to turn around and start making fish faces with some guy at work"
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made me laugh
Personally I would tell her to stop making out / snogging / sleeping / fucking other guys and her apparent boyfriend until she figures out how the heck she does feel - not fair to them or to her for her to be leading multiple guys on that way when she doesn't mean any of it.
She does sound guilty about it but for me cheating is cheating not something I could handle in a monogamus relationship.
As for the would I give different advice to a guy - I like to think I wouldn't, I would still think his actions were wrong but that it's cause he's messed up emotionally at the moment instead of just being malicious.