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At first, I always wanted to be surprised. What was surprising and how I reacted was totally up to me. It's OK to have lists as a general "weed-out" criteria, but you're setting yourself up for missing out on those uncharted adventures. The one's you can't even imagine because you have no frame of reference.
For my "weed-out" list, beyond the original ten offered in the OP... I pretty much agree with the basics. But since I'm now over 30, I find that I cannot trust a woman that won't wear jeans (or whatever) or go W/O makeup ... it's part of that whole being able to kick back and be comfortable.
Fortunately for me, I married an amazing woman. She's the girl in my avatar.
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