Well its been a while since I've had this issue. I tend to try and avoid it if possible because I just hate having to deal with drama so much. It's rather ironic too because I'm usually the person that people come to and rant to when they have relationship issues. Now I'm finding myself in their shoes.
Here's the scenario, I met this chill girl at a party a few weeks back. I've hooked up with her a few times, but before doing anything I straight out told her that I wasn't looking for anything serious and I didn't want to be tied down. She was cool with this and agreed that she didn't want to be in a relatonship either. So we continued to see each other. I also mentioned how much I dislike drama in these situations.
She's a roommate of one of my friends who I see on a regular basis so we've obviously been hanging out quite often. The other night she went to dinner with her parents, I was tired, so were all my buddies so I figured she wasn't doing anything either (plus we're not even dating) so using my guy reasoning I figured that I should just leave her alone and not interrupt her parent's visit. Later that night I got a text saying "I don't get you" I responed with "What?" because I was confused as to what she didn't get. A few minutes later she sends another one saying "What to you" at this point I have no idea whats going on so I decide It'd be a good idea to call her, well I did and she flat out hung up on me. So I left it at that and said screw it. About 5 minutes later I get another one from her saying "Sorry, I'm just frustrated."
I'm not one to get too pissed off, I have a lot of patience with these things so I said that it was cool and I explained my reasoning for not calling/texting her. She sends me a response saying that the dinner with the parents ended at 8 and she went to a party that got broken up and she just wanted to see if I was drinking or not because "she just never knows" So at this point I decided that I just understood her texts wrong. So I told her what I was doing and at that time nothing, just out skating with my buddy. I get a text from her saying "Ok...have fun with that. talk to later you i don't know?" I responded saying that I was probably going to pass out soon, because I was really tired and we were on our way home. I get back and get another text saying "Fine. I went home. I'm tired too but you're not being fair. damn it. i hate texting." To this I responded I'm sorry, cause I didn't know what else to say and she sends one back saying "No you're not. you won't even listen to what I have to say." A few minutes later she calls me and we decided to have lunch the next morning to talk and "get to know each other better"
That was lastnight. I just got back from lunch which went fairly well, we ate, talked alot and then went on a drive and talked more. I just dropped her off and she asked me if I wanted to go in for a while. I kinda just wanted to take it easy and do some homework today so I said no. At that point she seemed real pissed, no hug good bye, just a "Bye Corey" So I have no idea whats going on. Any thoughts?
CLIFFS: Girl wants more than random play, possibly a relationship. I don't want one and she seems really pissed. I explained that I didn't want a relationship or to be tied down in the early stages of this "relationship" I don't want to lose her as a friend though. Help?
I'd also like to add that I haven't been in a relationship since 7th grade, so I'm not really use to dealing with this first hand.
