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Well... I agree with most of what's been said...
But also realize that you don't HAVE to go thru with the wedding. Maybe you need the time to explore before committing and settling down. At least talk to her about your concerns (the hallmark of a good solid relationship) and see how she feels about it. It's rough when you're dating someone immature and dramatic (a lot is due to her age) so just understand that that's who she is right now. You can propose taking a break, seeing other people, couples counseling, therapy ... da da da...
Marriage won't solve your problems and really, you shouldn't PROPOSE til there are no doubts in your head at all.
You should talk to her and then decide if you love her enough to take her as she is now and as she will be in the future and if you are willing to give up this part of your youth.
And hey, there are medicated people who are perfectly loveable and she may be off meds in half a year, who knows.
No worries, you're not wed yet! Good luck!
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Uh huh her.
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