^^ Exactly right! Well written smut.
While the *idea* of a stranger is appealing in that purely fantastical way, it's far more enjoyable in real life with a partner, in a role-playing sort of set up. At least for moi. But in my mind, you're correct about the titles etc, MM... after all, it's a *fantasy* to be out of control. We never really are, tho, and that's just the thing about it. To be both completely in and completely out of control all at once... well... it requires a trusting relationship.
Anyhow, my point is, it was evocative and well-put. Aka well written smut!
