I'm ALOT older than you....
Sigh.....so have a bit of experience to draw on.
Never the less, UStwo is correct.
Run. (Well put by the way)
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Originally Posted by thelifeandtimes
IFirstly, we have been fighting constantly. And not about big things or even important small things, but petty differences that honestly are a waste of time and breath. She blows everything out of proportion. She likes to assume and then hold it against me later on when I have no idea what she is talking about. Lately she has been very passive aggressive using what I say against me. I can handle the fighting to an extent until I reach a point where I just can’t be in the same room as her.
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Been there, seen it, done it.
No fun, it never gets better, it only gets worse. I lived with a woman for 4 or so years just like this. Constant arguing, bitching, complaining about stupid shit. In my case, it was reoccuring arguements - usually about my family, friends, or work. It was like a broken record (note to young person, in olden days, when a record was "broken", the needle would skip and it would just keep repeating itself) Sorry, couldn't resist that....
Anyway, it never got better. I would try to talk to her, it would change for about a week or two, then right back to the way it was. Like an elastic always comes back to its original shape, so too do people.
It became unbearable. It affects your health, it affects your sanity.
Run.
Plus, you are waaaaayyyyy to young to get engaged. Live a bit.