Here's the emotional affair test....
Part 1:
If your single friend tells you they've started dating a great person with whom they really connect with, have hours of wild exciting sex with and may be their soul mate, what would be your emotional reaction?
Part 2:
If your married friend tells you they've spent a great weekend with with their spouse and have regained intimacy and communication to a degree they haven't experinced since early in their relationship, what is your emotional reaction?
Scoring: If you honestly feel happy for your friend, they are just a freind. If there are any feelings of loss, betrayal or sadness, then to that degree it is an emotional affair.
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