i think, and it may have already been said in one form or another, that if you are doing or saying something to someone that you would NOT say in front of your S.O, thats some kind of (emotional or physical, depending) affair. i think that you should be comfortable with what you say to other people.... because if you are then you will have no problem repeating it to your S.O. For example, if i'm gonna go to a party with some friends, some of them are women, and i told a friend "Wow, you're looking hot in that dress!" That would be fine. Because I would say the exact same thing in the exact same way if my girlfriend was standing right next to me.
If you find that this theory constricts your outside convo's then i would say that a conversation is needed with your S.O. Sometimes two people aren't that communicative and it leads to problems with stuff like that.
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