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In the early 90's I dated a woman fairly seriously, though not 100 percent seriously. (Because I was still crazy about an ex and I couldn't get over her).
In the early 2000's, I dated said above woman's little sister. I liked her, but it never progressed past like and she moved to Vancouver, blah blah blah.
It was kind of an interesting scenario for me being able to compare the two of them. I asked the younger one what the older one thought and she was apparently ok with it. As it turned out, it didn't really matter.
Another story:
My best friend dumped a woman he lived with for 7 years. He was seeing someone else and finally lowered the boom on her. I always liked her, but was never CRAZY about her. I knew she kind of liked me as well. After they broke up (she didn't know about the timing of the new one, but I did) I was at her new apartment helping her fix some things. She was wearing a nightie at one point and it was basically showing everything, including the beav. I might add that she was an extremely good looking woman. She was very upset.
At one point, she was holding me, at another point she left to have a shower, but left the door open.
I knew I was totally green lighted.
I wanted her badly.
But I have known this guy since I was 1 day old. We literally grew up next door neighbours and he's my BEST friend.
Fuck, it just about killed me to get my ass out of there.
I don't regret it as I think he would not have been too impressed with me hooking up with her, despite the fact that he cheated on her.
Now, if this happened today, some 7 years later, I'd probably go for it. Given that he's married now to someone else, I think he'd be ok with it.
Still, it would be kind of strange.....
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