Okay, seeing as me and my mans labido are about as high as eachothers, sometimes his is higher than mine, and sometimes mine is higher than his. But, I say that whoever is not in the mood, should give in and pleasure their partner every once and ahwile. Like, when I am not in the mood for sex, I will give my man a blowjob and some anal fingering to get him off because I love him. And when he is not in the mood, he will do oral on me, use a vibrator and play with my ass as well to get me off. Doesn't take much energy and the other person still ends up happy. So yes, you should give in here and there. But sometimes you can just say no, its fine.
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