I think people are losing sight of the question in extreme examples...
Anyway
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Originally Posted by Push-Pull
At what point does saying "no" become selfish (if any)?
At what point does asking for the lesser driven to say "yes" become selfish (if any)?
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I'd say it has to do with what the relationship grew from.
Unless one of them had been dissatisfied with the sex (frequency) since the beginning, it takes a change to mess things up.
If it's a drastic enough change, I'd say that's a bit unfair. It's just about as bad as having a huge sudden personality change that could create problems.
If one of the people had been dissatisfied since the beginning, they should have tried communicating it more maybe. As this is somewhat (not exactly frequency) of an issue for me right now too, I know it can be hard to discuss with your parter. If it becomes too much for the person and they feel like their partner should have sex with them because of their drive, I think they're being selfish because they knew what they were bringing themselves into.