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Originally Posted by abaya
Wow, you just gave me even more reasons for why I don't want babies anytime soon (and I just turned 28--prime childbearing age, at least among my friends). 
Incidentally, how do you manage that situation, Ustwo?... open relationship, beating off, what? Just curious how the realities of pregnancy/post-birth are handled among healthy couples. |
Well I know of some pregnant women who get more horny, but Mrs. Ustwo is not one of those.
As for what I do, I think opens up a good avenue of discussion.
I know I'm not going to get laid tonight, that doesn't bother me because I know its a temporary thing, so I can tease my wife about her fat ass (yes I am able to do that without getting hurt) and we can laugh about it, and there is no strain in our relationship. On the other hand if I knew I was not going to get laid tonight or any other night for the rest of my life, it would be a major strain and something that would be affecting me daily.
So while I do get sources of relief (and I'll leave it at that) they are not required. I think if I knew my sex life with her was 'over' then I'd be in a completely different frame of mind even though the over all sex amount was the same.