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How often should a partner say "no"?
Sorry this is so to the point, got to get out the door. The questions are pretty much what I wanted to ask though.....
Here's the deal. Let's say committed relationship, long history of trust and no cheating. Let's also say one partner's libido is quite a bit more driven than the other's.
Is it the "less driven" partner's prerogative to say "no" anytime they don't feel like it, or should they give in on occasion for the sake of the other?
If yes, how often should they give in (if at all)?
At what point does saying "no" become selfish (if any)?
At what point does asking for the lesser driven to say "yes" become selfish (if any)?
I realize that the answers will be subjective for most people, but I'd still like your viewpoints.
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