I dated a few guys briefly, but my first real relationship was at 15. He was a crazy and abusive bastard. Broke up with him after 8 months of HELL and moved on.
Was with 2nd bf for 4 years, broke up with him and dated around for a couple months. I met my hubby while enjoying the single life and not really looking for anything serious at all. We've been together for just over four years now (married for over 3)
I guess it's all about being ready for a relationship, then bumping into someone else you're compatible with who is also ready for a relationship. *shrug* It can happen when you're least expecting it, so don't lose heart