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This definitely needs to be asked and hasn't been yet.
Has your girlfriend expressed dissatisfaction with your longevity?
A lot of guys seem to think that being able to go forty minutes makes them a superstud; meanwhile, the girl under him spends ten minutes enjoying herself and half an hour contemplating what colour to paint the ceiling. I don't really know where the idea that long-lasting=sex god comes from, unless it's just another application of the oh-so-flawed 'more is better' mentality.
If you know that you're not going to last, just make sure you take the time to satisfy her before playing hide the sausage. You can get her screaming long before you ever stick it in and if you do she's probably not going to care if you're a two-pump chump. This isn't to say that long lasting sex isn't enjoyable, as it most definitely can be. Just don't get so caught up on the idea of being a marathon man to the point where you're not paying attention to what she's getting out of it, y'know?
And Baraka_Guru, I find it vaguely disturbing that not only have you taken the time to measure and record various metrics re: your sex life, but that you have them handy for posting.
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I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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