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Originally Posted by Racnad
I really wish I could have a relationship like that, and I feel like what you describe is the way I treat her. For reasons not entirely clear to me, my wife disagrees.
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Hmm, have you attended couples' counseling? Ktspktsp and I spent a few months there before we got engaged, which was helpful (even though we were already communicating pretty well). If you're not on the same page with your spouse, even though you feel like you should be, that's usually a good time to call in the counseling troops.
(And there's absolutely nothing wrong with doing so... in fact, I admire couples all the more if they sign up for counseling!)