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Originally Posted by glooper23
I don't know why it hurts so much.. it shouldn't.
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Yes it should. Your heart is broken, that's why. Try to take a moment and fully appreciate that fact. It's the feeling that has inspired so much music and poetry after all.
If this was an 80's movie, there would be this other girl hanging around who wears glasses and a pony tail who is really the one that you want, but unfortunately you can't notice until it's almost too late. Seeing her wither her hair down and without her glasses on would finally make you aware of the first girl's flaws and disinterest.
This isn't a movie so you'll just have to listen to the sage advice of all the others who have posted above. They have the benefit of an objective position.
Believe it or not, you will get over her. The intensity of your feelings may not diminsh over time, but the amount of time you spend having those feelings will. You don't need to be cold or cruel to her, just stronger resolve.
And keep an eye out for that girl with the glasses and the pony tail.