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Originally posted by ivegotcandy
I want to sit down with her and ask her straight out how she feels. I am hesitant to do this because it could create a very unhealthy working enviroment. If she says that she doesn't have any feelings for me, I would be screwed because I would have to face her every day.
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ivegotcandy: I'm NOT saying the following things for you. You should listen to everybody else's advice. Stop reading this message right now.
Everybody else: I just want to point out that the above sentiment is total bullshit. We all think this sort of thing, and it's complete crap. Communication that is open and honest and responsible actually FREES YOU UP to be however you are. The "If I talk about it I'll be screwed" is a one-way ticket to misery.