K I have a couple of ideas ....
1) Initiate the sex differently or try a different location. Go have a bath together and wash eachother first or something. Though I will warn you showers can be dangerous if the heights between the two parties are too different. Massages can also work.
2) Flavoured sauces, honey, whipped cream etc are great fun if a bit messy - don't attempt when you have the nice sheets on the bed or if applicable kids at home as you really don't want to put clothing on over the top. No matter how hard you try to clean it all up with a tongue bath you still feel sticky afterwards.
3) Get her to lie down and see how close you can come to touching her without actually doing so. Just skim your hands a fraction above her body - great fun watching all the hair rise on end and goosebumps appear if she's sensitive.
I know you said you weren't into bdsm but you might try some very very lax bdsm, just silk scarves to hold her hands (not even necessary if she has good self discipline) and a blindfold then alot of fun with ice cubes and hot drinks (same as you can use the both for a blowjob not suggesting you put hot liquid on her skin) or a few different things like some leather gloves (or a belt) and some feathers - different textures to tease her with and see if she can identify them.
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