View Single Post
Old 08-31-2007, 03:07 AM   #1 (permalink)
rufius
Upright
 
Location: Miami, FL
Something to spice it up a bit?

I've been together with my girlfriend for about a year and of that year we've been having sex for about 5 to 6 months. Before she met me she'd never really seriously dated a guy, and had never had sex. I'd had a couple of serious relationships before, only one that was sexually active and it wasn't good sex... pretty shabby really. So the sex life with my current g/f is great. We probably average 8-10 times per week for sex, depending on how much has been going on.

The issue at hand, or rather concern is that we've somewhat slipped into a routine, which don't get me wrong does great things for us. She gets around 20 orgasms from the routine with a select number of positions. My question is would it be good for us to be less stuck to our routine or is it good to have a "go-to" routine for getting your jolly's?

I know that spice is the variety of life, and we've been working on that since we've both noticed that we've gotten a little too "serious" and aren't having enough fun. Which is shown by the fact that last night she gave me a blowjob, which she used to be totally against, and she admitted she actually really enjoyed giving it (though I think the saltiness of the cum was somewhat bothersome to her; I'll need to eat more pineapple).

So really I'm just wondering if anyone has suggestions for spicing it up without getting to far into the wayside. Neither of us is interested toys other partners or BDSM though food could be interesting. Suggestions anyone?
rufius is offline  
 

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62