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Originally posted by Skettios
Hey guys,
So I'm left feeling hurt and pissed off again. If she doesn't want to be with me, she should have played by the rules we set up. Whenever I break them, I get chastised, but whenever she does, we don't say anything.
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I guess what happens is that I tell her how much I like her, and she reciprocates, but then when I want to talk about it, she tends to push me away. So I always think that she really wants to be with me, she just doesn't say it...This would be so much easier if she would just get rid of me. I don't know why she doesn't do it.
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This is called being played. She doesn't get rid of you because she doesn't have to. She treats you like crap (or the end result of your interaction with her is you feel like crap, anyway) and you come back for more.
Being "in love" isn't a one-way feeling. It's based upon mutual respect and reciprocity.
Take heart in the fact that millions of women (even attractive ones) are seeking someone to hold their hands, share their thoughts, and gaze at the stars.
None of what I just wrote is going to change your mind--good luck with your issues.