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AHEM...... it helps when you reply, "they never caught the Zodiac....hmmmmm."
Anyway, I had a sugar mama once, and it wasn't worth it. Yes, nice things were GIVEN to me but at such a cost that I lost who I was. And what was given was not appreciated because I didn't earn them for myself. And the lady had no care, no understanding and no desire to truly appreciate me. I was just a boytoy and an arm hanger in public. I found that people would whisper and laugh behind my back, as everyone knew what I was and the self esteem vanished. The sex was good for awhile.... then when I couldn't perform as SHE wanted..... that was it. Dropped like a rock.
Now, I am happily married to a wife that somewhat understands and cares....
My advice is to find happiness within yourself, be who you are and work for what you want. If you think being a boytoy or a girltoy is going to get you what you want.... you will lose everything in the end.
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I just love people who use the excuse "I use/do this because I LOVE the feeling/joy/happiness it brings me" and expect you to be ok with that as you watch them destroy their life blindly following. My response is, "I like to put forks in an eletrical socket, just LOVE that feeling, can't ever get enough of it, so will you let me put this copper fork in that electric socket?"
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