Wow this is a hard situation, and I do not envy you.
I think all the advice given above is spot on. I'd say it's probably a good idea not to go around "looking" for anything. Do things your enjoy, meet people, hang out with them either in groups or one-to-one, date without looking for "the one", and just live life. If and when you meet the right person to move on with, then perhaps you can start thinking about whether and when it's appropriate to date more seriously. I think this advice is equally suited to anyone who is single and would eventually like to not be.
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