10 things I love about my
xepherys (in no particular order):
1. He always knows exactly what to say to make me feel better
2. He is fiercely loyal to his family and friends
3. He makes me feel like I'm his entire universe
4. He is an extraordinary father to his two sons
5. He tells me how sexy I am and how much he loves me at least once every day, even when he's at war 8000 miles away
6. We can argue and fight, and laugh about it 10 minutes later
7. He has a sense of humor that compliments mine, and we can spend hours and hours talking and laughing about everything and nothing
8. He is a sex god! He's a stallion in sack and can go, over and over, without having to take a break in-between
9. He is very passionate about things that are important to him
10. He is my best friend, and I trust him with my life
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Originally Posted by mandy
...Crompsin, you really have a very negative outlook on this matter Mr. whether it was said in jest or not. Is there nothing you appreciate about your ex?what made you fall in love with her in the first place?instead of looking at the bad, look at the good. what good he/she has/had brought to your life. put all the bad out of your head...sure, it's hard but it's worth the try to make sure you dont look back on a relationship or marriage and think about it as "a one liner".
before you can accept anything else into your life, you have to let go of the stuff that you are currently holding on to.because you cant go on clinging to what was and how it was back then. think about how it is now and learn to appreciate the fact what you had and what you've got.because if you dont appreciate what you have, there's no use trying to accept and appreciate something new, cos you just wont have the space in your hands or time in your life to do so.
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Uhm, preach much? Before you try to dole out unsolicited advice, you might want to do some research before jumping up on your soapbox. I think Crompsin has every right to have the outlook that he does at the moment. If you were deployed for over a year and came home thinking that Healer would be so happy to have you home, but instead found out that he had been fucking other women while you'd been getting shot at and now wanted a divorce, I can guaran-damn-tee that you'd be pretty damned jaded, too. What his ex did was unforgivable, IMHO, and completely negates anything positive she may have contributed to the relationship. Crompsin has every right to feel the way he does. Should he have posted his thoughts in this particular thread? I dunno. Should you have retorted the way you did? Definitely not.
/me apologizes for the threadjack.