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Location: Port Elizabeth, South Africa
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You and your SO...lets call it the SO appreciation thread
This thread was inspired by a thread in the ladies lounge and i thought it would be great to have it here too.
What we going to do here is say 10 good things about your SO. What you appreciate about them, what you love about them, why you care for them as much as you do. It's really good for them to read if they are members here, as a little surprise and its also good for you to say them "out loud" so to speak ![]() I'll start: 1. I love Healer's soft heart. 2. I appreciate his honesty. 3. I love the way he looks at me when he tells me he loves me. 4. I love how he's so willing to do anything he can to help anyone. 5. I love his kisses. 6. He doesnt complain a lot and sometimes you have to drag out of him whatever it is that's bothering him. 7. He's hard working and has a strong work ethic. 8. He's a GREAT listener. 9. He's hugs always make me feel a shibillion times better. 10. He's the most hamsumest man on the plannet, a truly beautiful person inside and out.
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Location: Port Elizabeth, South Africa
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Firstly, this thread has been visited/viewed 45 times (doesn't anyone want to share how they feel about their SO's?) and the only reply was a negative one which is not at all what this thread was started for.
Secondly, Crompsin, you really have a very negative outlook on this matter Mr. whether it was said in jest or not. Is there nothing you appreciate about your ex?what made you fall in love with her in the first place?instead of looking at the bad, look at the good. what good he/she has/had brought to your life. put all the bad out of your head...sure, it's hard but it's worth the try to make sure you dont look back on a relationship or marriage and think about it as "a one liner". before you can accept anything else into your life, you have to let go of the stuff that you are currently holding on to.because you cant go on clinging to what was and how it was back then. think about how it is now and learn to appreciate the fact what you had and what you've got.because if you dont appreciate what you have, there's no use trying to accept and appreciate something new, cos you just wont have the space in your hands or time in your life to do so.
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Illusionary
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She is quite kind
She has a wicked sense of humor She has a very nice ass She loves her children completely She has a great understanding of what is right and wrong She made me smile She made me think She fucks like a beast She has a melting smile She ....tries Unfortunately...shes gone...heh |
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Playing With Fire
Location: Disaster Area
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She was quite kind
She did have a wicked sense of humor She had a very nice ass She still loves her child completely She had a great understanding of what is right and wrong She made me smile She made me think She fucked like a beast She had a melting smile She ....tried Unfortunately...shes gone...heh Seemed to apply to me too.....
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Location: Iceland
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I'll bite, Mandy.
![]() ![]() Ktspktsp... 1) is a pleasure to look at, in all ways ![]() 2) is more patient than Job 3) is truly compassionate 4) knows just the right way to hug me 5) is an excellent cook 6) has a wicked sense of humor 7) fucks me like an animal, when I want it that way ![]() 8) is damn smart 9) is my favorite Scrabble/wrestling/geography-quiz partner 10) loves me beyond understanding. ... and so many more things, damn the list could go on forever (I actually made a very long list like this for him, for one Valentine's Day card awhile back... it was fun). ![]()
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drawn and redrawn
Location: Some where in Southern California
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If I had an SO, she's love to hear what there would be to say about her...
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But You'll Never Prove It.
Location: under your bed
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Une petite chou
Location: With All Your Base
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~He's got the most interesting views on everything.
~Sometimes we have exactly the same thought without voicing it to each other until later. ~He'll surprise me with thoughtfullness and rememberance at the oddest times. (he's got a really crappy memory for all things emotional or non-essential to his survival/success ![]() ~He taught me about intolerance. The good kind, like not tolerating being pushed around. ~He's incredibly brilliant... and has finally gotten over that I got into Mensa and he didn't. ~He's got great taste in movies, humor, art, and entertainment most of the time. ~He motivates me and occasionally lets me motivate him. ~He's got the most incredible, sensitive, soft lips and hands. ~He doesn't let me get away with anything I shouldn't be able to get away with. heh heh heh.... ~He loves and respects me.
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Tilted
Location: Ann Arbor, MI
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- I'm kind of weird, and she is the first person to truly understand me.
- We have the exact same sense of humor. - I can be entirely myself, not having to change anything at all, around her. - I love the way she teases me by nibbling on my ear or grabbing my ass, etc. - I love the feel of her skin and her scent. - She has the most gorgeous body ever. - She is incredibly intelligent and strong, as in confident/independent, but still comes to me to voice her problems. - I absolutely love when we are just laying together, and I feel her breathing and her heart beating. - Anything from her, as little as a smile, can brighten an otherwise awful day. - We can and do talk to each other for hours on end, and we are interested in everything, if only for the reason that the other is saying it. |
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Delusional... but in a funny way
Location: deeee-TROIT!!!
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10 things I love about my xepherys (in no particular order):
1. He always knows exactly what to say to make me feel better 2. He is fiercely loyal to his family and friends 3. He makes me feel like I'm his entire universe 4. He is an extraordinary father to his two sons 5. He tells me how sexy I am and how much he loves me at least once every day, even when he's at war 8000 miles away 6. We can argue and fight, and laugh about it 10 minutes later 7. He has a sense of humor that compliments mine, and we can spend hours and hours talking and laughing about everything and nothing 8. He is a sex god! He's a stallion in sack and can go, over and over, without having to take a break in-between ![]() 9. He is very passionate about things that are important to him 10. He is my best friend, and I trust him with my life Quote:
/me apologizes for the threadjack.
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...is a comical chap
Location: Where morons reign supreme
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1. He has the most beautiful blue eyes...he could give Frank Sinatra a run for his money.
2. He is my rock and is one of the only people who can truly make me feel better when I'm stressing about something. 3. He is an incredible dad. 4. He got himself out of a destructive cycle that seems to permeate his family and is the first person in his family (to my knowledge) to go to college. 5. He has a goofy sense of humor which matches my goofy sense of humor. We can act like idiots around each other and think it's funny. 6. He is always encouraging me to be a better person, regardless of whether or not I want to hear it. 7. He has an awesome butt. 8. He likes to learn new things. 9. He is a good son and is someone his mother can truly rely on. 10. He is patient and forgiving.
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pinche vato
Location: backwater, Third World, land of cotton
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She is the smartest person I ever met.
She is the only person who has ever been able to make me laugh so hard I choked. She is so fucking hot that I can't stand it most all of the time. I'd jump her bones all day everyday but she has to feed the cats from time to time. She is the only person who ever told me I had a cute butt. She is the only person I ever wanted to be around all of the time. She tirelessly bails me out of stupid shit and continues to give me second chances when she gives NO ONE else any second chances - ever. She has never noticed that I get a little tear in my eye when she sings around the house. She prefers to attend sports in person rather than watch on TV (almost every guy's ultimate fantasy). She understands the true meaning of "Forget? Hell!" She gets me.
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<3 TFP
Location: 17TLH2445607250
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Only ten? But TotalMILF can rack up a list of at LEAST eleven! :-p
1. She's a wonderful person down to her very being. 2. She's great with children. That means so much to me! 3. She's utterly and completely beautiful. 4. She's not only willing, but HAPPY to sit and watch football with me. 5. She's funny... far funnier than I could ever be. 6. She's very sweet. She does little things that make me smile, and no matter how bad a mood she might be in, she's always grateful for the little things that I do. 7. She's the best friend I could ever ask for. 8. She puts up with me. 9. She's smart as hell. 10. She's her! No matter how many thing I list, it always comes down to the fact that she is who she is... and that makes her perfect for me!
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Location: Port Elizabeth, South Africa
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Secondly, no I don not preach but i always try to live, think and breathe positivity. thirdly, I was neither trying to give advice nor jump on any soapbox. Fourth, this thread was started to breed positivity about one's SO. Sure, you think it to yourself all the time and you may say it to your SO from time to time too. But one day when he/she is driving you up the wall, it's something to look back on and remember why you love and care for them despite the goings on at that present moment. Fifth, TotalMilf, I completely understand where you are coming from and I can totally identify with trying to defend a friend. But I dont think it was up to you to decide whether or not the "advice" i was "trying to dole out" was unsolicited, un-asked for or unwanted, even though that was not my intention. That decision is/was up to Crompsin, and though he may agree with you, it was still his say to say, not yours. And while i can appreciate what you did because I would have most probably done the same thing, although just not as rough and tumble as you. There is a fine line between being straight forward and just plain rude. Sixth, what Crompsin ex did...GAAASSSHHH! i dont even know where to begin on that one...but I am truly sorry for what she did to you, Cromp. Seventh, had it been Healer and myself in that situation, tes, i most probably would have been a bit jaded, but i would do my utmost to keep myself living, breathing and thinking positive. I'm not saying that it would be hard or even worked at all, but i most definately would have tried. So, should he have posted his thoughts in this particular thread? NO...'cos he could have started his own "ex bashing thread" in which to post his story and his thoughts and feelings. Should i have replied the way i did?... definately so! Because what he said was uncalled for in this particular thread.
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Junkie
Location: The Danforth
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Today is my 21st wedding anniversary. Almost 26 yrs since we met on the university campus. I cannot even attempt to distill into 10 discreet items those things that I appreciate about my s/o. Everything from her smile to the 3 beautiful sons that we have drives me wild. She keeps me grounded, and pushes me to achieve and to love.
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Unencapsulated
Location: Kittyville
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Like petite moi, I'd rather put a few in at a time. Today:
1. Q loves me even tho I'm me. 2. Q loves me because I'm me. 3. Q tries. Always. 4. Q will do anything necessary to make me laugh. 5. Q is a mushy, baby-crazy guy who goos and gahs over cute babies. 6. Q is a good kitty-daddy. ![]()
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pinche vato
Location: backwater, Third World, land of cotton
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*tink Grancey and I are still moving forward at 14 years of married life together, and 22 years of just plain life together.
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Found my way back
Location: South Africa
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Where to start...
- She's just so fucking cute! - Don't let the cute exterior fool you...she's one tough cookie. - She's probably the most emotionally strong person I have ever come across. - She gives of herself so willingly. When Barry Manilow sang "Oh Mandy, when you came and you gave without taking", he was talking about her. - She makes me want to be a better person all the time. - She has the ability to make me smile, even when I'm feeling lower than dirt. - Her smile lights up a room instantly. - She can cook anything, and loves food more than even me! - She took my flower. ![]() - She's agreed to marry me! Most of all, she loves me. Wholly and unconditionally. Who could ask for more?
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The Worst Influence
Location: Arizona
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Just ten things? Hm..guess I can try to condense everything into ten things.
1. I love the way his face lights up when he's having fun 2. He's one of the smartest people I know, even if he doesn't believe it 3. He'll try new things 4. He encourages me to try new things too 5. I love the little wierd things he does, like sleeping in sleeping bags! 6. He is one of the few people I know who understands my love of cars and motorcycles 7. I love that he doesn't mind teaching me new things 8. He's loyal, kind and the truly the best person I know. 9. He insists on putting me ahead of everything else 10. He's beautiful and knows how to use it against me
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Upright
Location: England
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1. The things that annoy me are also the things i love most
2. He has always been supportive and never judgemental 3. His cuddles make the world stand still 4. The way he says "i love you" is always heart felt and never out of habit 5. I love the way he holds me and kisses me 6. I love that we can spend hours just doing nothing but being together and not get bored 7. He is my perfect man in every role boyfriend, friend, sexual partner (i feel so lucky) 8. He says and does the cutest things 9. I love the way he'll burst into a song when it gets too quiet 10. I love that he knows how i'm feeling without me ever having to say |
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Think about it
Location: North Carolina
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1. is wise and intelligent and can hold deep meaningful conversations with me for hours
2. has the cutest baby face smirk when he wants something, be it as simple as a cup of coffee, basically his eyes smile and I love it 3. has put up with my crazy family beyond what I know anyone else would 4. still loves me and takes care of me, even when I'm a bit crazy 5. I love his smell 6. he cooks dinner for me everynight and packs me a lunch for work everyday, (and cleans the house) 7. he loves the outdoors as much as I do 8. his shaved head and his long goatee *drools 9. I LOVE his hands 10. he's loyal and almost brutally honest
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I Confess a Shiver
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Ooooh, barracuda!
Well, since you wrote two paragraphs for me...
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I don't want to be better. She killed me. I'm pissed. I want to be angry. And I'm doing a good fuckin' job. ... I apologize for my lame attempt at humor. Nobody else posted. Meh. Last edited by Plan9; 08-28-2007 at 07:40 PM.. |
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