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Kym:
I lost my wife to cervical in december of 2004. She was 36 at the time. We had been together since I was 16 and she was 14, and were married at 21 and 18. I started dating someone within a year. I would have never expected that I would be able to do that, and would have possibly tended to look down on someone who could do that after such a long relationship. I had to quickly realize that it didn't matter what other people thought, as long as my kids accepted it, and I was comfortable with it. The grieving will go on I am assuming forever. The gal I am dating was one of my wife's caregivers, so she understands how much my wife did, and always will mean to me. I am willing to bet the right person for you is right in your inner circle, and fate will bring him to you. You may struggle with survivors guilt, but in the end you have to do what is best for Kym.
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