There's nothing that you've said that I disagree with. However, whether one's behavior is excusable or inexcusable it doesn't hurt to understand what explains it. In fact, it may help us take pity on a person that might need our help. As I was reading the post I speculated that this girl was probably more in need of a good therapist than a good boyfriend, and that's regardless of the assumption of emotionally crippling abuse or what have you.
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