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It's not uncommon for victims of abuse and especially sexual abuse to freeze up as a response to being put in another abusive situation, it's a way of dealing with the situation. If you've ever seen a documentary when a lion pounces on a gazelle or what have you...sometimes even though the prey is alive after the first attack they'll just freeze up, I'd liken it to something like that. I'm not saying that this is what's happening with your girlfriend but am just putting the info out there for your edification. Perhaps, I didn't read carefully enough, you said you were in a long distance relationship. Have you talked to her in person? If you do it might clear up a lot of the issues you have and help you decide what to do. Whatever you decide good luck.
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