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babygirlkym1, as suggested, it all takes time.
Pretty soon, I'm going to start my Masters in Family/Marital Therapy and I can tell you that you are NOT the only one who feels this way.
I've personally seen a lot of families who have been separated apart by death and eventaully individuals recover and move on with their lives as hard as it may seem.
You must note though that taking this obstacle just by yourself may not be the best option for you. You need the right support group, to guide you into the proper direction the same way you're guiding your daughter into the most beneficial path possible.
It's been almost eight years that my father died and my mom is finally realising that she must indeed pursue HER life and not constantly seek the life THEY had as he - my father - is dead.
Six months is a very short time to cope with the death of a loved one, so if you're trying to naturally get ahead of your emotions and most important of all, mind - it's not going to work. You're only making things worse.
As ratbastid said, it's ok to not be ready yet. Take it easy.
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Cus' you'll have bad times, but that'll always wake you up to the good stuff you weren't paying attention to...
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