I'm so sorry for your loss.
My mother is a widow and it is very hard for her to move on as well. Perhaps it is the entire notion of not finding that same person ever again, and hence not dating. However, you must know that as much as you loved and still love your husband, you must move on with your life with the aid of another partner - it's natural.
At one point you must put the past to the side and really realise that in this enormous world, there is that someone else who can be as compatible. Every person is unique in their beautiful way. No one will ever replace him.
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In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on.
Cus' you'll have bad times, but that'll always wake you up to the good stuff you weren't paying attention to...
-Steve Jobs
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