It sounds like you're afraid to end the relationship because you don’t want to hurt her feelings and have pretty much already terminated the romance in your head. If you have kids it might be worth a shot to try hard to make it work. However, you're young, therefore, I assume you don't have children with her, and I assume this is probably the only real girlfriend you've ever had. Maybe it's time to move on and offer the friendship card to your current girlfriend; if she truly needs someone to be by her side a friend will have to do.
Introspective aside: Why am I giving relationship advice to people? Now my head hurts too.
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